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February 3rd

My first appointment at the hospital to meet the surgeon and have some initial tests done. It was during the heavy snows we had but luckily once I had got a few miles out from home, the snow thinned and travelling wasn’t a problem.

There had been some mix up with the appointments and I was in the book for 30 minutes after the time in the appointments letter. The hospital was also  running 1.5 hours late and I had arrived 30 minutes early!! No matter, it gave me time to read up on literature there and just watch and listen as to what was going on in the reception area. I was struck by the assortment of people there that had kidney problems … young, old, mothers, fathers, youngsters … it was a reminder than anyone, any age can be seriously ill and need help. I had time sitting there to think about the struggles some people have  to try and lead a normal life. It made me realise I have been very lucky in life as regards my health. Whatever I have had wrong with me has easily been treated. Not so for thousands of people. I am so glad I made this decision to donate.  Sometimes being kept waiting for an appointment has its advantages as in this case – it opened my eyes even wider.

I saw the surgeon first, very nice guy. Very friendly, smiley face and good sense of humour. I immediately felt relaxed in his company.

He made sure I knew exactly what it was I was offering to do and explained that a Doctor would be assigned to me to look after my interests.  I would go through a very thorough medical assessment.  I would also have a psychologist and psychiatric report made. The whole team needs to know that I fully understand what I will be doing. That I understand the procedure and what could go wrong etc etc.  Once I pass the medical tests and the psychiatric report, the details are then sent for approval. If I am approved as a suitable kidney donor, then I will be put on the database and once a suitable recipient is found, arrangements will be made for the transplant.  The evaluation process can be between 3 and 6 months, but they anticipate that once accepted it will be a very short time before they locate a suitable match.  

They would remove my kidney in this hospital and then safely transport it to whichever hospital the recipient is in.

The surgeon asked me about my medical history and my families. We have all been clear of major illnesses that might affect the donation.   The only down side was that I am overweight. I thought that might get mentioned!  lol ! I was weighed and although my BMI (Body Mass Index) was just within the acceptable limit, the surgeon did advise I try to lose some weight.  My current weight would not hold up the operation, but if I could lose some then that would assist the  surgery and also my recovery afterwards.

I then saw one of the transplant nurses. She asked more questions re medical history etc and then organised some  tests:

Blood pressure
Blood taken for tests (about 8 tubes used)
Heart Trace
Chest X-ray.

  It was also explained to me that during the very strict and thorough evaluation process, at any stage they could find out I am not suitable as a donor, so I also have to prepare myself for the disappointment of not being able to help someone.

My biggest worry at the moment is losing weight. I have an under active thyroid which piled the weight on a few years ago and losing it  is extremely hard – I never used to have a problem with being able to control my weight, but now it is a real battle.  

Please Pray that I pass the evaluation process with flying colours.

My next appointment is April 17th when I see the doctor … regarding what exactly not too sure, will have to wait and see.

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7 Responses to “Kidney Donor evaluation begins”

  • Judy:

    You are amazing to do this. I was not even aware this could be done. I can understand someone giving one of their organs to their husband, wife or child but to give an organ to someone you do not even know is a wonderful thing to do. You are very brave.
    Good luck for the future
    Judy

  • Suzie Blackman:

    I was really interested to read your ‘diary’ of your assessment day. I am seriously considering becoming a live donor and so am reading as much as I can. Good luck and hope you can go ahead. Look forward to further posts.
    Suzie

  • Diane:

    Hi Suzie,
    Thanks for posting. As you read on, you will find I actually did donate and what a wonderful experience it was. I really wish I had another spare kidney so I could give it to someone else.

    If you have any questions, please either post here or contact me direct via the contact page.
    All the best and I hope you decide to donate – you won’t regret it.
    Di
    x

  • Glenys:

    Hello from NZ. I was thrilled to read your story about donating a kidney. I am currently in the midst of my workup to donate to my son, aged 36 and married with three small children. I’ll continue to read all the blogs you have done. This is such a help hearing your step by step progress. I had a workup three years ago and was eventually unable to donate then due to two tiny stones which became visible on the CT angiogram. Since then they have relaxed the protocols and i am now able to proceed, and like you, I have a strong faith in God, so am confident that all will be well.I’ll leave it at that for now, but wish you well in your continuing journey. Kind regards, Glenys

  • Diane:

    Hi Glenys,
    I can imagine how disappointed you were when originally turned down because of the kidney stones. Must have been an awful moment. But I can also imagine the joyous dance you did when you found out there was now a possibility!!! oh Wow!!! I still get so excited when I hear someone is wanting to donate, it is as though I am going to do it all again myself, lol. I do so hope reading this blog will greatly help you. there are also some very useful comments made by others. If you have any questions please do just post or if you wish you can contact me direct via the “contact” link top right of page.

    Please post back letting us know how you are getting on I really would love to hear ..
    All the best
    Di
    xx
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  • Glenys:

    Hello again, all seems to be on track- have the final appointments with the surgeon and renal physician on 23rd. I love where you say you get all excited when someone is wanting to donate. I am “seeing” (in my imagination) ny son well. Will keep you posted xx

  • Diane:

    Hi Glenys,
    Thanks for keeping us posted. Not long to go now, wow!! lol, yes I do get excited. It must be so wonderful to know that soon your son will be back well again. You know I thank God so many times for the Gifts he gives us. The fact we do not need two kidneys …. surgeons and nephrologists and nurses and techniqcians and the many I have forgotten who all form part of the donation team to make this possible …. it is a miracle!!
    Look forward to hearing from you after your next appointment.
    Di
    xx

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